In future relationships, should I preemptively spy on my spouse?

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Member ? Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 164	Well since most of you have found out about infidelity the hard way, do you recommend preemptively spying and keeping tabs on your future spouses. What I mean by that is that instead of waiting for red flags and then acting on them, you will: (I use the pronoun her but you can use his in your case) 1.) Put a GPS on her car and check it periodically (weekly or biweekly) 2.) Put a VAR in her car and check that periodically. 3.) Install a keylogger on her computer/tablet and check it regularly. 4.) Put spy software on her phone or at least randomly check her messages and out going calls. 5.) Maybe hire a PI if you have money to annually check up on her. Some of these are extreme but infidelity is an extreme pain so they may be warranted. Also, I recommend a prenuptial agreement or a postnuptial agreement for anyone worried about getting robbed again in a divorce. Of course there is the less nuclear options of: 1.) Establish well-defined boundaries 2.) Always wanting transparency 3.) Strongly discouraging opposite gender friends However, these may not be as effective as the other methods of discouraging or discovering affairs.
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